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Difference resources

We’ve created a set of key resources for your use throughout the course, which can be downloaded as PDFs or purchased as hard copies. Below are the details of what each resource contains. Go to the ‘Resources’ tab to view all.

Host Guide

The Host Guide is your most important resource when running the course. It provides you with instructions for hosting each session, guiding you and your group through the STORY, SPACE and SANCTUARY sections, which are colour-coded and include timings to help you keep on track. Additionally the guide includes a reflection for you to read ahead of each session and guidance on how to host a Pre-Gathering and Re-Gathering.

There are in-person and online versions of the Host Guide and you’ll be provided with the appropriate resources for your context when you set up a course. Individual guides for each session are also available to download as PDFs.

Participant Guide

This is a resource for people taking part in the course to use, helping them to reflect and process between sessions. It also provides an overview of the three habits and a reflection for each session.


In the STORY section of each session there is a film to play to your group, featuring the story of someone who has faced conflict, division or a difficult relationship. You can download these films to a device or play them online depending on your preference.


There is an optional set of slides that you can use for each session. This can be a useful visual aid for some of your participants, acting as a focal point to guide them through the session. However, if you are hosting online without support you may choose to go without them to avoid having to juggle screen-sharing with hosting the session.

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